What's an Xmas?

A good friend of mine posted on Facebook the other day that he was out getting some xmas clothes for his son. Well...needless to say...being the somewhat funny jerk of a friend that I am, I started razzing him about his choice of the word "Xmas" instead of typing Christmas.

I must admit....the exchange between he and me was quite humorous, but we do at times pick pretty hard at each other...but we have been friends for well over 20 years, so I think we can handle it.

In his defense, though I think it's a pretty flimsy one, he was in a store chasing around a VERY active and curious 1 year old boy, and he said Xmas was easier to type on his phone than Christmas.

That is true...Xmas is much easier to type, but it lacks something. It just looks like somethings missing. It kind of reminds me of a math equation....(you know, the whole X equals Y junk?) and anyone who knows me will tell you...I hate math!

The more spiritual or religious types may tell you that it is a shadowing of our lives. How so easily and conveniently we can leave Christ out of the conversation. I can see some validity in their argument, and I must admit....my mind did go there for a moment. Probably mostly due to my many years spent in a ultra-religious and judgmental state of mind.

However, I think for the most point....we just need to get over it.

Carlos Whitaker had a humorous post a few years ago that I wanted to share with you.

"Top 9 Reasons Why It's Ok to Say Merry XMAS!"
1. I love baby Jesus too but he didn't name Christmas…Christmas. We did.
2. If this offends you then I suggest you change your greeting to “May you have the most joyous season of celebrating the birth of my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ”. It is less confusing than Merry Christmas.
3. I find it more insulting that people get mad at Bart Millard for saying Xmas and have no idea that the pagan origins of their gift exchanges started in ancient Babylon when the feast of the Son of Isis (Goddess of Nature) was celebrated on December 25. Raucous partying, gluttonous eating and drinking, and gift-giving were traditions of this feast.
4. I’m thinking we should celebrate Christmas when it actually happened. More or less around September.
The shepherds were not tending their sheep in the middle of a Judean winter. I promise.
5. I’m not taking Christ out of Christmas when I say Xmas… I am giving more attention to the word “mas” which in the true language of God means “more”
6. I love Jesus. If you are concerned with people seeing a Christian take “Christ” out of the word “Christmas” let’s just say it Merry Jesusmas so that everybody will get it.
7. On twitter it is a much better way of saving your character count.
8. Let’s face it.  Jesus is the X Factor! What A Better Way To Say It!!!
9. I hate lists of 10 so I’m gonna stop at 9…Or really 8.

So....there you have it. I like it...I think I will start using that one myself. Right now as a matter of fact.

I hope you have a Very Merry Jesusmas!

What do you think of the whole XMAS vs. Christmas debate?

I'm Broken, And That's Ok!

The required façade of belonging to the “I’ve Got It All Together Club” was all consuming and exhausting. It became too much to keep up with. The need to hide every emotion, hurt, or fear so deep within, was draining me, killing me, the real me, ever so slowly. I couldn’t let up, I had to continue on. It is what was expected of me after all. I could never let those I am ministering to ever know that I too struggle with the very same things they do. I too have fear, anxiety, and moments of doubt. I was too afraid to share my heart, too afraid to show my insecurities. My thinking was “who wants to follow someone who can’t get their act together?”

I remember that a pastor friend of mine used to always say to his church staff, “Fake it till you make it!” In other words, you have to have the appearance of “everything is alright”…even if it wasn’t. Every time I think of this my mind goes back to something that Dan Reeves, who at the time was the coach of the Denver Broncos, said in an old television commercial for an antiperspirant, “…never let them see you sweat.” This same sentiment had been echoed over and over to me in my 25 plus years of ministry involvement.

Now I understand what they are trying to say, and their intentions may be good, but when it comes to the things of Christ, it’s ok to admit we don’t have it all together. He can, wants to, and will use us WITH our deficiencies. “But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me.” 2 Corinthians 12:9 NIV

Here it is, several years removed from that time. I am older and wiser (yeah…right) and I am still reconditioning myself, reprogramming myself if you will, to be vulnerable, open. I don’t have to have all the answers. I don’t have it all together. Let’s face it no one does. And anyone who has you convinced that they have it all together is probably just a better liar than most.

I read a the book “True Faced” a few years back and it helped me tremendously in recognizing just how much bondage I was living in. If you haven’t read it, I would highly recommend that you do so.

One of the authors of this book and my friend, whom I have never met in person, John Lynch, gives a beautiful, troubling, compelling message about “Two Roads, Two Rooms.” In this message he talks of how we are wearing masks, hiding who we really are, afraid of what others might think of us when they see our flaws.

Not only do we do this in front of people, but we laughingly try to do the same thing with God, when He knows everything there is to know about us. All of our sordid details, hidden fears, massive insecurities and numerous other things we think we have hidden within.

Well….to all of you out there that know me, and those of you who don’t, NEWSFLASH….I’m Broken…And That’s Ok!

Peanuts, Tree Nuts and Fish Gelatin

I love Ginger Snaps...I mean who doesn't?

Today however...as I am having lunch with my beautiful wife and she begins to read the warning label on the bag of our beloved Ginger Snaps..."Made on the same equipment as other products, which contain peanuts, tree nuts and fish gelatin"....WHAT??? GROSS!!!

After sitting there for a while...pondering the implications of what I just read....I popped another one of those delactable Ginger Snaps in my mouth and thought...doesn't taste anything like fish gelatin....whatever that is!?